Cheng: Green Tie
Melinda: Little Girl in Blue
Alex: boy in purple shirt
Ding I Ling: skateboat
Mary Chuah: tongkat
Seok Binn: the mother in red dress
Elaine: the glasses
Phaik Nee: The green doll
I was the little girl. When Alex asked us to generate questions and say a little about the object. It just came to me this pharse, "Hurray, 12345 Once I caught a fish alive, daddy not going to fishing instead we are going Queensbay".
Since I am not in the hot seat, here are some of the questions I would like to ask the little girl.
1. Who is your best friend in this picture?
2. Do you go everywhere with Little Kitty?
3. I see you are wearing a pinafore, is that your school's uniform? Did you just dissmissed from school?
4. Since this looks like an outting, can I know what is the occassion?
5. If you are given a chance, who will you go for comfort when you are sad?
My ritual for de-role.
Ooophs, I am Melinda, mother of 2 and no longer the little girl.
Below is my object similar to what I am using to de-role, it is a pinky japanese lucky cat with a bell attached to it. I will also ring the bell.
Some of the questions are leading...can you spot them and some are closed questions?
ReplyDeleteStay with the spontaneous thought that had pop into your mind .... "Hurray, 12345 Once I caught a fish alive, daddy not going to fishing instead we are going Queensbay".
If you have heard them, where are you more likely to have heard them? How old were you then? What may be the emotional contents in that statement? What maybe the significance "Daddy is not going fishing..."? How do you feel? What will amke you feel the opposite? etc etc. This questions may facilitate closer exploration of the subconscious triggered by the free association with the little girl character.
Can it be that my own dad do not spend time with me, he is always busy...
ReplyDeleteWhat it can be is what you 'sense' it to be....it comes as an affective felt sense in the body and not only limited to the cognitive domain. Thats what insight is like although you have to remember that insights are dynamic in nature ..... that is....it is not static, it changes and transform as it evolves.
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